Have you ever wondered why some people feel the need to judge others when they don’t understand or accept something as their own version of normal?
If it doesn’t affect us do we really have the right to judge someone else’s choice? Of course not so the point of that quick questioning was really to jump straight into it. If you are judging people for living their best life, fucking stop it!
DO NOT KINK SHAME!
Now let’s actually tackle a real kink talk! We all have that little something lurking in us, that something that our mind says is taboo but makes us tingle down deep with anticipation of what it could be like.
So why hold back? Life is too short to be holding ourselves back from living our best lives. Whether it be getting tied up, leather, whips, chains, food play, anal play, inviting another person into the bedroom whatever, don’t let your fear of what other people may think stop you from experiencing what could be the most amazing sexual awaking.
Imagine for a moment you are sitting alone on the sofa, then out of nowhere appears your lover holding satin ropes and a leg spreader.
You are excited with a little fear of the unknown however you can feel that excitement deep down, you are wanting.
He/She comes over grabs your face with one hand kisses you hard then ties your hands with the satin ropes. You are restrained, the feeling of the soft satin is sweet and sexy.
Then he/she attaches the leg spreader and you are now at their mercy. Don’t deny you are intrigued, don’t deny your aren’t excited of what may happen to you next, I’m not going to write a sexy novel today so I am not going to kink fuck your mind anymore but that was enough to get your attention right?
I think we can safely safe with out a doubt the answer to kink is jump right in! Even if you like vanilla, you can’t deny extra is extra exciting.
Im not saying everyone needs to be hog tied, gagged and ass fisted lol but it’s ok to try something a little out of the “norm”, love it and keep on trying lol.
Never let society dictate your normal, write your own version of what’s ok. Let’s be honest as long as we are happy, healthy and making wet messes we are just fine the way we are.
Find what intrigues you, find a partner that shares the same tastes or if you already have a partner discuss with them your thoughts. As I mentioned last blog communication and research are the most most important things.
Find your limits, push your boundaries, be safe and be sexy and above all else be happy!
Now off you go and have yourself a fun fuckery kind of time, if you are needing anything a little extra while we are on this subject I have fuck loads of sexy shit in store, hit me up! Free shipping Australia on all orders over $100!